Why Timing Matters in Love, Money and Marriage — And How Your Birth Date Quietly Predicts It (Explained by Numerologist Akinyemi Alamu of 7schema)

Every day online, people argue about relationships: who is wrong, who is right, why marriages are declining, why people are staying single longer, and what exactly is changing in the dating world.

A recent viral video brought this argument back to the surface. Three people made strong points about why many people, especially women in their 30s, are still single. But what made this video different was the perspective of the third speaker, Akinyemi Alamu, a Numerologist and the founder of 7schema.

Instead of focusing on blame, he focused on something deeper and more practical: timing and finances.

Here is the breakdown.

## The Viral Debate and the Three Perspectives

### 1. The First Speaker: Men Know Who They Want to Marry Immediately

The man in the brown shirt argued that men are the gatekeepers of marriage. According to him:

1. Men decide early if they want to marry a woman.

2. If a woman is 35 or older and still single, her character is the reason.

3. He believes men do not want to marry women he described as having harsh or confrontational attitudes.

This view is common, even if not always said publicly.

### 2. The Second Speaker: A Woman Can Have a Good Character and Still Be Single

The woman in black strongly disagreed. Her points were:

1. The power to propose belongs to the man.

2. A woman can have excellent character and still not get chosen.

3. Being single in your 30s does not automatically mean bad character.

This perspective is also valid and relatable to many people.

### 3. The Third Speaker: Akinyemi Alamu, Numerologist and Founder of 7schema

This was the turning point of the discussion.

Akinyemi Alamu explained that both previous speakers were correct in their own ways, but they were both missing the real foundation of the problem.

His argument was simple and practical:

1. The number one cause of relationship stress today is financial pressure.

2. When money becomes slow, emotions become unstable.

3. Stress increases misunderstandings and magnifies small issues.

4. Financial pressure affects behavior more than most people realize.

He explained it in a relatable way: when finances are low, people become financially hungry and emotionally angry. Anyone who has experienced financial pressure knows how true this is.

But then he went deeper.

# How Timing Controls Behavior, Finances and Relationships

Akinyemi explained that everyone has personal timing cycles that influence their behavior, emotions and opportunities. These timing cycles come from the person’s date of birth.

There are periods where everything flows, and periods where nothing makes sense.

### High Timing Cycles

1. Money becomes easier.

2. Opportunities come quickly.

3. Relationships feel peaceful.

4. Emotions are more balanced.

5. You attract better people.

### Challenging Timing Cycles

1. Money slows down.

2. Misunderstandings increase.

3. Emotions become more sensitive.

4. People feel overwhelmed easily.

5. Relationships feel strained.

These cycles have nothing to do with character.

They are simply part of a person’s timing.

Many relationships suffer not because the individuals are bad, but because they are moving through a challenging timing cycle without understanding what is happening.

# How 7schema Portal Helps

This is the foundation of the 7schema Portal created by Akinyemi Alamu.

7schema reveals your timing based on your date of birth, including:

1. Productive years

2. Emotionally sensitive years

3. Financial slow years

4. Challenging periods

5. Relationship timing

6. Opportunity months

7. Years to avoid major decisions

8. Breakthrough cycles

People use 7schema to understand why:

1. Certain years felt difficult

2. Relationships broke unexpectedly

3. Money slowed down

4. Emotional instability increased

5. Opportunities delayed

6. Life felt blocked

Understanding timing gives clarity.

Clarity reduces mistakes.

# Why This Matters for Love and Marriage

If financial pressure affects emotions,

and emotions affect relationships,

and timing affects finances,then your timing influences your entire love life.

Akinyemi explains that many people get into conflicts, breakups or make the wrong decisions during their challenging timing cycles. Others rush into relationships during unstable periods. Some people think they are unlucky, when in reality they are simply in a low cycle.

Your timing shapes your emotional reactions, decision-making, level of patience and relationship compatibility.

# If You Are 30 Plus or Emotionally Struggling, It Might Not Be Your Fault

Many people blame themselves for situations that are actually timing-related.

Your 7schema reading can show:

1. Your current timing cycle

2. Why certain years were emotionally heavy

3. Why past relationships struggled

4. Why finances slowed

5. When stability will return

6. When your relationship timing becomes favorable

7. When breakthrough periods start

8. What to avoid in your current cycle

This is knowledge most people never receive, yet it influences their lives every day.

The solution he recommends is simple:

1. Go to Google.

2. Type 7schema Portal.

3. Open your personal timing calendar.

4. See the cycle you are in right now.

Most people are surprised at how accurate the reading is and how clearly it explains their past and present.

# Final Conclusion

Akinyemi Alamu summarized the truth perfectly:

When you understand your timing, your emotions make sense.

When your emotions make sense, your relationships become clearer.

Better clarity leads to better decisions.

Some people repeat the same mistakes because they do not understand their timing.

Others move forward faster because they do.

If you want clarity, stability and peace, search for 7schema Portal on Google and check your personal timing.